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I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing me, holding my hand, saying how pretty I look and how attractive he thinks I am.
This is all very well but I wish he'd show it in the bedroom! When we do have sex usually initiated by myself he finds it difficult to have an erection for more than ten minutes. I feel this is the root of the problem and is why he doesn't initiate sex with me.
We've spoken about this many times trying to get to the root of the problem but with no luck! The funny thing is that throughout the day, he has no difficulty getting erect, but when it comes to having sex A big problem now is that when I feel in the mood for sex I tend to fantasize about other people, including one of my exes who I was very sexually active with. I feel guilty for doing this, but find it difficult to fantasies about my current boyfriend as we hardly have sex!!! Please can someone offer me any advice about how to talk to my boyfriend about sex, how to make out relationship bit more spicy and whether I'm a bad person for fantasizing and thinking about my ex sometimes!!
My relationships at the moment is going brilliantly in every department apart from this Click to choose posts category Show expert posts Show community posts. Ask the community. I'd really appreciate your comments, Thanks. My partner doesn't want to have sex.
Article rejection, sex. Being in a sexless relationship. Article intimacy, sex, decline. We've been married over ten years. We love each other. Everything else is really really good.
We get along, we laugh, we spend time together. We're literally soul mates. The wife will give me a bj Why dont your man want sex with you couple times a week and she is really really good at it. There are no problems here. I'll admit I have a really high libido, I'm strongly in the mood at least once every day but usually twice. I'm really happy with activity every day though, but our average frequency is more like every other day Sometimes it's every day if things are going really good low stress times. But again, I'm ok with every other day.
I don't really enjoy masturbating any more because I would just prefer her. I do not look at porn either, no interest in that at all. No interest in other women either. She has told me she is horny about once a day. If she hugs me with any sexuality at all it's an instant erection. She likes how she makes me excited so easily. She told me it makes her feel confident and know that I'm attracted to her, which is an understatement.
She's very very attractive too. She has people come up to her and flirt all the time. Here's the problem. This has been going on for quite a while now. She rarely kisses me more then 10 seconds. She may let me kiss her neck and breasts, but lips She'll let me touch her body everywhere That's very very rare. And if she does let me touch there it's for less then a minute.
And she will not, under any circumstances, have intercourse with me. I have talked to her about it ALOT, and she says my size scares her I don't think I'm a monster down there. I'm about 8" depending on how excited I am. Interestingly, if I masturbate it's barely 6 inches She's the only thing that excites me really. She has also told me I am bigger now then when we met When she does oral on me I might be a little over 8 sometimes at the peak of it right before I finish when it's really intense. She also says she literally loves giving me bjs, she really enjoys it and I don't think she is lying.
She also tells me it's enough pleasure for her just doing that for me. If I say I want to thrust more I say it other ways, many other ways, dirty or sweet or clean or naughty whatever Even kinda rough and deep, whatever I want orally just no intercourse.
I prefer the feeling of being completely inside whenever we do things and she can do that deep throat almost all the way, almost the whole time she gives me oral. When it comes to oral she does it almost anyway I want it. With oral, she will do almost anything I want. That isn't a problem at all. She is just worried I will want the same kind of feeling with intercourse, but I told her I would control myself and not try to push it in like that all way.
She says she will eventually try it we have before, we used to all the timebut she's been saying that for months now. I think it is the combination of lack of affection and no intercourse that is really bothering me. If it was just the no sex, but we kissed a lot more I might accept her reasons. If we had sex and didn't kiss I'd probably still be worried. If she let me pleasure her down there and we kissed I'd believe her reasons.
Unfortunately, it's all three I'm sorry if this is coming across pornographic that's not my intention I assure you. Everything else I've read is always men saying they cannot get any oral sex or any sex at all One thing I read was a guy saying his wife constantly gave him oral all the time, but maybe that was a joke. I'm wondering if there are people who are going to say I'm really lucky that the only thing I have to do in my sex life is get incredible oral sex almost every other day.
Maybe I am? I'm just really bothered by what is NOT happening. I want to be intimate with my wife again. I tell her, we talk about it. She assures me it's just my size that scares her. That it will hurt, but I say I'll be as gentle as I can be.Why dont your man want sex with you
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